Also if absolute worst comes to absolute worst and my daughter insists on removing the hair (on the nose will concern her most I imagine) prior to her teens whats the worst that can happen if she puts a blob of hair remover on there to tide her over until she is old enough for more permanent measures? I hate the thought of her putting stuff like that on her face tho ... can it make anything worse? Sensitive hair follicles dont "thrive" on the stuff or anything do they?

the light vellus ones wont come back obviously stubbly and dark? Would really like her to just leave well enough alone for as long as possible before permanent options especially on the face.

Okay scrap the above. I have just read a post on hair removal creams not being good for the smaller non problem hairs.

A major part of this is that the young person actually wants it done.
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