I, too, love to take vengeance on ingrowns, but revenge is a dish best served cold-- take your time, work clean as RJC points out, and don't dig for them-- you can get a tiny scar doing that.
I also find taking a Q-Tip soaked with Tend Skin and pressing it on the inflamed area helps it clear up much more quickly. Some also use benzoyl peroxide products like those found in acne medications.