Overtreatment? constant redness and changed texture of the skin

I had no pitting before I started the electrolysis. I know that she did my upper lip/chin/neck without insulated probe 4 times (?). Only last time she got insulated probe but I am still red as usually. At this point I am not even sure if the redness is from my last appointment or from previous ones. I am really concerned she is burning my skin and it never will be the same or I will have permanent pitting. The problem with 1st electrologist was that I had no side effects (I was pink for 1 hour and a little bit swollen the same day) but at the same time I did not see any progress… No idea if I should find 3rd one or just maybe suggest the lower settings on my skin. I think she was usuing Flash level 5, 89% on neck and level 3 on upper lip (I am sorry, I have no idea If I am using the correct therminology). I think she uses probe no. 5, maybe it’s too big and leaves those marks? Also she bends the needle.
I know that nobody can tell me exactly what to do and what’s the best but I am really losing my sleep over the redness on my upper lip. It looks like the same part of skin was treated too many times and it’s gonna be red forever :frowning: